First Meeting
First meetings, first impressions and early conversations.
Met a girl thrice, she is great but zero physical attraction
On paper and in person she is wonderful. Kind, smart, we talk easily. Everyone says marry her. Problem is there is just no spark for me physically. I keep hoping it grows but after 3 meetings it hasnt moved. Does attraction build over time in AM or am I kidding myself? Dont wan...
First meeting he spoke only to my dad, never looked at me
Had the first meeting today, both families. The guy spoke to my father the entire time about work and property. Did not ask me a single question. When I spoke he gave one word answers and looked at his dad. I felt invisible at my own meeting. Is this nerves or is this a preview...
Parents fixed a girl without asking me. Meeting is next week
Came home to find my parents have basically shortlisted a girl and told her family we are interested. I only saw one photo. Meeting is set for next Sun. I am not even angry, more stunned they moved this far without a word to me. How do I go into this meeting without feeling lik...
First meeting this weekend, what do I even ask?
Have my first proper meeting with a guy on Sat. Coffee, just the two of us, parents are not coming this time. I am so bad at this. Last time I froze and we just talked about weather and traffic for 40 mins lol. What are some actual qs that tell you if the person is worth a seco...
27F, he was great on chat but went totally silent in person
For three weeks our texts were witty, deep, hours long. Met in person yesterday and he barely spoke, gave short answers, looked uncomfortable the whole time. I left thinking we had nothing, but then last night he texted saying he had a wonderful time and is really keen. So whic...
First meeting at a cafe next week. Who is supposed to pay?
Finally meeting a girl one-on-one at a cafe, no families. Small thing stressing me out: do I just pay, do we split, does offering to pay look controlling, does splitting look stingy? I know it sounds trivial but first impressions matter and I do not want to get the vibe wrong in...