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First Meeting
27F, he was great on chat but went totally silent in person
For three weeks our texts were witty, deep, hours long. Met in person yesterday and he barely spoke, gave short answers, looked uncomfortable the whole time.
I left thinking we had nothing, but then last night he texted saying he had a wonderful time and is really keen.
So which is the real him, the warm texter or the silent stranger at the table? Do I give a second meeting a chance or trust what I felt in the room?
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Comments
Trust actions over anxiety. He texted after to say he is keen, that took effort. Give one more real chance, then decide.
Some people are genuinely shy in person and open on text. One awkward meeting after three great weeks deserves a second look.