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Arranged Marriage
Horoscope says I am manglik. Suddenly everyone is backing out
28F. Two good matches in a row backed out the moment the kundli said manglik. Both were going really well before that.
I dont fully believe in it but it is now the headline of my profile apparently. Relatives are already whispering about remedies and fasts.
Has anyone dealt with the manglik tag? Did you find someone who didnt care, or did you end up doing the whole ritual route? Feeling labelled over a chart.
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As a guy, a chart would never cancel a girl I liked. Plenty of us feel that way, you are meeting the wrong families.
It stings being reduced to a label mid process. But it is quietly doing you a favour by removing the fearful ones.
Put it out early in the process so only open minded families engage. Turns the label from a shock into a filter.
My wife was labelled manglik. We married, 6 yrs, zero curses, two happy people. The label is marketing, not destiny.
The manglik tag scares off the superstitious, which honestly filters out families you would fight with forever anyway.
The whispering relatives are noise. One good man who shrugs at the chart undoes all of them in a single yes.
You are not the problem, the belief is. Do not do fasts to shrink yourself for people who were leaving anyway.
Some do the remedy route and move on, some just wait for a family that does not care. Pick what you can live with.
I am manglik too. Married a guy whose family did not care. They exist, you just have to wait past the ones who flinch.
If two good matches bolted over kundli, they were telling you they will blame stars for every problem later. Let them go.